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so I have noticed a few thing since I have been married and a little before I got married, my wife wont open up and talk to me.....when it something I think I very important she just looks at me like im stupid so I just stopped trying to talk to her, when ever she comes into the house she looks around at everything trying to find something that I have done wrong so I make sure everything I clean so I wont have to hear anything from her.....when I come up with ideas she always points out the bad in it so I keep my ideas to my self....I can keep going on with this ....I don't even know what to do and I feel like im walking on egg shells every time im around her, sometimes I play sick just so I wont have to hear anything negative from her , if I tell her whats on my mind she gets mad at ...... am I taking the punk way out by being a mute and letting her win all the battles ....I don't know how much I can take....someone say something please.

Are you both believers?

Do you go to a good church?

If the answer is "yes" to both questions, then INSIST she accompany you to marital counseling sessions (either from your pastor or someone he refers you to).  If she refuses, then go by yourself.

DO IT NOW. The survival of your marriage depends on it.

Quote from: DaveW on Mon Dec 29, 2014 - 12:55:34
Are you both believers?

Do you go to a good church?

If the answer is "yes" to both questions, then INSIST she accompany you to marital counseling sessions (either from your pastor or someone he refers you to).  If she refuses, then go by yourself.

DO IT NOW. The survival of your marriage depends on it.

I agree 100%!  You need help to know how to deal with her and she needs to learn how to be a partner, not your mommy.

God bless. I am so sorry!

Thank you for the advice

I agree with the above. Marriage counselling to enable you both to communicate better.