I don't want children

[michelle strebe]

I don't want children. I'm 35 and a girl. I am having a hard time trying to get Christian boyfriend 18 to 43 who don't want kids. I'm having alot of anexity about it. I plan on having surgery so I don't get pragnet. I trust Jesus Christ to send me one some day.

[RB]

I don't want children. I'm 35 and a girl. I am having a hard time trying to get Christian boyfriend 18 to 43 who don't want kids. I'm having a lot of anxiety about it. I plan on having surgery so I don't get pregnant. I trust Jesus Christ to send me one someday.

You are describing a egocentric individual and at once upon a time it was a shame for a woman not being able to have children!

Luke 1:25~"Thus hath the Lord dealt with me in the days wherein he looked on me, to take away my reproach among men."

Even worst, for those who are so self-centered that they do not desire children for they are a lot of work if trained properly~No "godly" man would even desire a woman like that, and rightly so! He would be spending his life on high maintenance egocentric person and any wise man had rather dwell in a wilderness alone than with such a person. But thank God there are godly beautiful women that KNOW their PLACE in God's creation and they are ONE among TEN THOUSAND and a wise man will search and WAIT for such a rare ruby while you continue your anxiety feelings~There are losers out in the world that would have you just for their sexual pleasure and maybe that would be all you deserve IF your post is legitimate~but not knowing, I gave you what a true, goldy man believes that has a little experience under his belt both spiritual and naturally.  And just think, it was FREE.

[Rella]

I don't want children. I'm 35 and a girl. I am having a hard time trying to get Christian boyfriend 18 to 43 who don't want kids. I'm having alot of anexity about it. I plan on having surgery so I don't get pragnet. I trust Jesus Christ to send me one some day.

Do you actually know that you could get pregnant? Many women can't but desire to.

You are going against God's plan.

As such Jesus will not send you one someday.

But know this.... if you do find a professing Christian man who does not want children, be very wary.

He will be a self centered, jealous, misogynistic type of person. You can believe that for he will not want to share himself with anyone except maybe you and trust me.... you do not want that.

[michelle strebe]

I'm not going again God plan. I don't want children. And I hope Jesus send me a man who don't want children.

[RB]

I'm not going again God plan. I don't want children. And I hope Jesus send me a man who don't want children.

You may very well get a man~well, let say one who thinks he is, but not a God-fearing man.  I corrected your spelling in both of your posts, maybe you need to work on that first. If English is not your first language then please accept my apology. 

[michelle strebe]

I expect your apology. Your forgive.  The reason I don't want kids is because I'm too small.

[Rella]

I expect your apology. Your forgive.  The reason I don't want kids is because I'm too small.

Do you mean too small in the ability to give a normal birth?

You can have a caesarian section and that would solve that issue.

If you feel because you are too small it would be overly painful, take heart.

They now have epidurals that conquer that and have no adverse affect on the baby.

[michelle strebe]

I don't want kids at all. They are too Loud

[Rella]

I don't want kids at all. They are too Loud

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I can assure you you do not want a controlling husband.  Get his ire up and you will know what loud is.

And one that does not want kids will be that

[Texas Conservative]

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I can assure you you do not want a controlling husband.  Get his ire up and you will know what loud is.

And one that does not want kids will be that

How do you know?  I am a man and I couldn't make that determination based on him not wanting to have kids.

[michelle strebe]

I'm a girl I know for a fact

[chosenone]

You are allowed to not want children, not everone is suited to be parents, but you will find it very hard to find a man who hasn't either already got children or who doesn't want them, so you may need to accept that you will likely remain single. Its hard enough for Christian women to find an available Christian man anyway due to their being far more women in the church, and this will make it far far harder.
I do know one Christian couple who don't want children, a nice couple, but they are quite rare.   

I honestly dont think that God wants you to have un-needed surgery to make you sterile. If you even get married just use birth control.

[Texas Conservative]

Do you actually know that you could get pregnant? Many women can't but desire to.

You are going against God's plan.

As such Jesus will not send you one someday.

But know this.... if you do find a professing Christian man who does not want children, be very wary.

He will be a self centered, jealous, misogynistic type of person. You can believe that for he will not want to share himself with anyone except maybe you and trust me.... you do not want that.

Seriously don't know where you are getting your info from.  Seems like you pulled this out of your butt.

[Texas Conservative]

You are allowed to not want children, but you will find it very hard to find a man who hasn't either already got children or who doesn't want them, so you may need to accept that you will likely remain single. Its hard enough for Christian women to find an available Christian man anyway due to their being far more women in the church, and this will make it far far harder.
I do know one Christian couple who don't want children, a nice couple, but they are very rare. 

I honestly dont think that God wants you to have un-needed surgery to make you sterile. If you even get married just use birth control.

Some methods of birth control are abortifacients. 

[Texas Conservative]

You are describing a egocentric individual and at once upon a time it was a shame for a woman not being able to have children! Even worst, for those who are so self-centered that they do not desire children for they are a lot of work if trained properly~No "godly" man would even desire a woman like that, and rightly so! He would be spending his life on high maintenance egocentric person and any wise man had rather dwell in a wilderness alone than with such a person. But thank God there are godly beautiful women that KNOW their PLACE in God's creation and they are ONE among TEN THOUSAND and a wise man will search and WAIT for such a rare ruby while you continue your anxiety feelings~There are losers out in the world that would have you just for their sexual pleasure and maybe that would be all you deserve IF your post is legitimate~but not knowing, I gave you what a true, goldy man believes that has a little experience under his belt both spiritual and naturally.  And just think, it was FREE.

I think you need to back and read the scriptures Red.  It was encouraged for those who could single to remain so.  Why would Paul say such thing if women were to know their place in God's creation?

[RB]

I think you need to back and read the scriptures Red.  It was encouraged for those who could single to remain so.  Why would Paul say such thing if women were to know their place in God's creation?

I was speaking of the GENERAL RULE, yes, there are exceptions and I understand that, but as I have said before, exceptions only PROVES the rule. God said to Adam AND EVE, BE FRUITFUL.....etc. Genesis 1:28

[Rella]

How do you know?  I am a man and I couldn't make that determination based on him not wanting to have kids.

Are you saying you did not want kids and are not like this? You seem to be a man who loves and watches out for the kids best interest.
Am I wrong?

How many have you known that did not want to have kids? Of those, do you have anyy idea what the life was like for their spouses?

[Rella]

Seriously don't know where you are getting your info from.  Seems like you pulled this out of your butt.

Personal experience from family.

NO not a husband as you know I am not married but I have lived the life of one who was unwanted.

And another in the family who did not want children and was extremely jealous that his "son" was born and made the woman's life just terrible.

And a close friend whose wife did not want kids and made his life a controlled misery.

[Texas Conservative]

Personal experience from family.

NO not a husband as you know I am not married but I have lived the life of one who was unwanted.

And another in the family who did not want children and was extremely jealous that his "son" was born and made the woman's life just terrible.

And a close friend whose wife did not want kids and made his life a controlled misery.

Anecdotal evidence.  It does not mean that every man who does not want kids is a terrible person.

[Texas Conservative]

Are you saying you did not want kids and are not like this? You seem to be a man who loves and watches out for the kids best interest.
Am I wrong?

How many have you known that did not want to have kids? Of those, do you have anyy idea what the life was like for their spouses?

No. I wanted kids.  I have seen many men AND women who are terrible, selfish parents who wanted kids.  I have known some fine people who didn't want kids.  Or couldn't have kids and accepted it.

My conclusion is you cannot conclude what kind of people men or women are on the basis of a personal decision like wanting to having kids or not. 

[RB]

It does not mean that every man who does not want kids is a terrible person.

Very true......TC, there are some men and women that have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of God~but these people are extremely rare~OTHER THAN THAT, and a few other RARE decisions, it is a FACT that the driving force of those people who do not want to be bothered with children is an egocentric spirit, and almost devilish. There is a growing trend with many in our days who do not want to be married but desired their freedom of living just to PLEASE SELF, but do desire a "partner" and in some cases a few of them. Brother, as you very well know, there is a fine line between narcissism and egocentrism, and such people are increasing at a rapid rate because our society is breeding such people because we have forsaken the word of Almighty God, and making ourselves little gods.