please help a fellow christian remain pure...

[pfpt]

hello.observing todays society,i can honestly say that it has taken a serious downfall.many people are having pre-marital sex without even thinking of it as a sin.i am willing to wait to have sex until marriage...but what about my future spouse?what if she doesn`t accept that?what if we don`t communicate sexually after we get married?
please help

[janine]

If the both of you are physically healthy enough to engage in some sort of sexual contact, and if you're both lovingly willing to do so, don't worry, sexual communication will happen.

More of a worry should be, getting to know someone very well in the context of their family and church.  Then you  might be able to make good decisions about where they stand sexually and where you stand and can you be together. 

[pfpt]

will God enlighten her to wait too if i pray?

[janine]

You might try being married first.