So how does Christian dating/ Christian relationships actually work?

[dothackzero]

So basically, I'm curious how long I need to know a girl at church before I can hang out with her. Where should we go. Basically, I have what I need to be with a girl now, but the problem is that I still don't know what the crap I'm doing to get things started. And the obvious hanging with her and other friends is kinda out right now. So I don't really other friends to hang with her right now.

So yeah, I really don't know what I'm doing to get closer to one.
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[chosenone]

BY hang out with her do you mean go on a date? if you do then there aren't any rules about how long you have to know each other. As soon as you know her well enough to know that you like her, then ask her out for a coffee or something casual.
Do you go to a youth group that she goes to? Its good to belong to a group like that, so that you can get to know people in that group as friends first.

[DaveW]

Not a simple answer to that question, brother.

There are probably hundreds of ways to do it RIGHT and thousands or tens of thousands of ways to do it WRONG.

Get to know and befriend her male friends.
Maybe even some of her female friends.
Be a Mensch.  (really nice guy, concerned with living fairly and morally; but not a prude or stuck up about it)

That would be where I would start.

[Crissyb]

I'm a Christian girl ::smile::if you like a girl first I would say talk to her:) say hello ask her how she is! Then maybe ask her is she's willing to hang out!Just know your intentions! & to keep it holy! But most Christian girls are also human & would love to hang out! Maybe you could just go bowling or something at first! Then see if your compatible with the other person! It's nothing wrong If your not! I would say Pray & ask God & the Holy Spirit for wisdom as to what to do as far as your love life is concerned! The bible says trust in The Lord with all your heart! Lean not to your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him & he will direct your path! This all includes in our relationships with others! Blessings

[DaveW]

.....  most Christian girls are also human .....

And the rest of them? ? ?

Hi Crissy and welcome to the forums here!   

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[Crissyb]

That's what I meant I'm just saying some guys might be afraid to approach a girl because they think we're going to be so holy that we're no earthly good! But I think You can still be holy while maintaining a relationship! That's what I meant! I think christian girls should stop scaring guys off but be approachable yet while still keeping their relationship with Christ! & will do.god bless