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Husband watched occasional porn

Started by 31woman, Fri May 24, 2019 - 08:05:09

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31woman

I just found out last night that my husband has occasionally watched porn since we've been married for the past 2 years. I was devasted to hear this. He says he is not addicted to it. He only doesn't when he wants me but I'm not around. I believe we have a pretty good sex life and he seems to agree. He says he doesn't watch it because he thinks I'm not sent enough. He says I'm the most attractive woman to him and that I'm perfect for him. But he says I can't understand why him and men in general have a thing for porn. I don't know what to do about this. He knows it's wrong but he says it's pretty much impossible for men not to look at porn every now and then. I just feel like he is cheating on me. How do I handle this? And still be supportive of him and this bad occasional habit?

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Personally I see it as cheating and no its not impossible for men not to look at porn, how ridiculous. 
In your place I would tell him that its not acceptable and that if he carries on you will end the marriage. You or the porn. Don't enable it or believe his lies.
If he is a Christian then he KNOWS that its wrong and a sin.   He is committing adultery with his heart. If he isn't addicted then it wont be hard for him to stop will it. Surely the fact that he knows how it upsets you should be enough to stop him. 

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