Marriage Resources

[DataPaul]

Hi everyone, my wife and I have been married for about 13 years. After 2 kids, the death of 3 of our parents, 2 degrees, and many other changes, we've probably ignored our relationship for too long and have hit a crisis point. Not sure we are ready to jump into marriage counseling. Two part question:

1. Where do you go to find the right resources to help a marriage? It seems there are so many places where you can find books, courses, workshops, blogs, etc. How do you aggregate all this into something that can help?

2. How do you ensure you find the right resources for the core problems? At this point it seems there are so many issues and it would be nice to find something that can hone in on the issue so we are wasting time and making things more frustrating.

Appreciate all your input in advance.

[Sinner]

Probably the best thing you could do is to start dating your wife again.  Remember how you treated her when you were dating?  Women love that treatment.

[chosenone]

Many churches and organisations run marriage courses/weekends. Perhaps do some research on what is available in your area.