not for the faint hearted, or people living in lala land and in denial.

[Howdyboyalan]

dude, your clearly not 'quite old'

A tiny minority of people have sex at 10. And they dont have 4 a year from that point on.

4 a year is NOT a conservative estimate, 4 a year is sometimes not even reached by the most sexually liberal.

Stop hating on the world, and maybe then someone won't reject you, are you surprised they do with that attitude?

[sopranette]

Finding the one you will love and want to spend your life with takes work.  Marriages take work.  I've only been with one man, my husband, and I love him with my whole heart.  I don't feel I've lost out by not sleeping around. "Getting" to a 10 yr old before someone else does is a pretty sick statement!   It's not like God puts this person in front of you and says," Here you go.  A soul mate".  I don't believe in soul mates.  The whole soul mate ideal is just an unnecessary stress to find THE one, and meanwhile the one you could love is passing you by.  There are going to be rocky patches in any relationships, and no one can live up to the soul mate facade. The whole soul mate idea is a crock of beans, at best! The same is true when we pursue a relationship with God.  There will be doubts, insecurities, rocky patches....even David had his moments.  And look at Job! But following His commandments, and keep striving towards making ourselves better people is an endeavor that is not a waste of time. We are blessed for doing so.

love,

Sopranette-why-am-I-answering-this-topic?

[chosenone]

Finding the one you will love and want to spend your life with takes work.  Marriages take work.  I've only been with one man, my husband, and I love him with my whole heart.  I don't feel I've lost out by not sleeping around. "Getting" to a 10 yr old before someone else does is a pretty sick statement!   It's not like God puts this person in front of you and says," Here you go.  A soul mate".  I don't believe in soul mates.  The whole soul mate ideal is just an unnecessary stress to find THE one, and meanwhile the one you could love is passing you by.  There are going to be rocky patches in any relationships, and no one can live up to the soul mate facade. The whole soul mate idea is a crock of beans, at best! The same is true when we pursue a relationship with God.  There will be doubts, insecurities, rocky patches....even David had his moments.  And look at Job! But following His commandments, and keep striving towards making ourselves better people is an endeavor that is not a waste of time. We are blessed for doing so.

love,

Sopranette-why-am-I-answering-this-topic?

yes I did wonder!

Some screwed guy. you are clearly ful of bitternes  and anger and that is sad, but please dont generalise about us asCchristians, we dont all go to church and then go and sleep around. Most Christians are faithful to their spouses and dont have sex befroe marriage. Sleeping around is incredible damaging aand will NEVER make you happy. Sexually transmitted diseases are rife and yes loads of prople do catch them.  You seem to somehow feel that you have missed out on not being promiscous, but that just isnt so.
You RALLY need to forgive whoever it is that you are so very angry with cos this bitterness with eat you up and destroy you..

[sopranette]

I need more coffee, Choseone. A horrible OP all around.  Shouldn't have bothered, but I did. Oh, well!

love,

Sopranette 

[sopranette]

No He didn't. What the...

love,

Sopranette