sincere question - need sincere comments and opinions

[jessbuds]

Love has no boundaries.

I am a little confused of some posts that says love has boundaries cause i think there is no boundaries and i agree 100% to the above.

even in marriage, love should be no boundaries though most nowadays even christians has this kind of feeling that "if you love me i will love you. if you dont love me let's get divorce." This should not be the case because either of the two in marriage cannot show their love to each other. I have a good example. My mother was a divoted wife even in times when my father was cruel and sometimes he hit her yet she never go away; agry and resentful at times but even to the end of her life she stayed with my father though she knew he was dating another girl. She was devoted to her vow as wife to my father though my father not.

I see in my mother's marriage that love is no boundaries there. On my father's part that is his acountability to the Lord. He will face it someday as there is no action that has no consequences.

It is man who made excuses to limit the virtue of love i guess though i did not experience it but studying from God's word; I am learning and what Jesus did; when He accepted the responsibility of saving us thru His sacrificial death i couldnt find any reason why He agreed to the condition of His decision to do so except of love otherwise why would He do it? Leaving His Splendor in Heaven with His Father, came down to His creation and became one of us, poor, mocked and died a painful death which left scars on his head, side, hands and feet and became in human form forever.

Is there anything in us that made Him do it? There is nothing in me as i evaluate myself. Well there are good looking, religious, rich and intelligent people who are so valuation not to be rescued but if that is the reason why He came then poor sinners, ugly, distitute people will fill the firy place of hell.

The other night i was watching Josh Groban's concert in DVD and i was amazed of the music and his ability to sing and right there and then i realized that God created us able to do good things that are pleasing to God and that is maybe one of the reasons why Jesus agreed to do it because we are worth more than His splendor in heaven. Can you call this love? I call it love cause it makes me feel as if my heart is melting everytime i think about what He's done.

It's so shameful on my part that my Creator has to came down because of my wrongdoing  and it always makes me feel like better be distroyed in hell than to see that Jesus died because of it. It's like tearing my heart apart. But on the other hand i feel so special that my creator do it for me. These two are what battling in my daily life always.
If this is love then love has no boundaries.

[Norton]

jess

God's love has no boundaries. The boundries of your mother's love stretched very far. Your father's love seems to have been very limited. Most of us are somewhere in between. It is our duty to keep increasing the boundries of our love, but Jesus knows we have our limits. That is why he did not command us to love and stay with a spouse who has cheated. That is beyond the boundaries of many of the most mature of Christians. Perhaps the couple's love can survive a threesome, but it is not smart to deliberately put love to the test.

[faolanblood]

The bible says that

Heb 13:4
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

You are not suppose to do anyhting sexual in nature with another man...premission or not from your Husband.

Jesus hims self said

Mt 5:27
Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery

He also said

Mt 5:28
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

your husband is not right to think of you with other men and you are not right to engage in sexual activity with other men.

Re 2:22
Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds.

You are breaking Gods Laws and Comandments.

As the wife you are to submit your self to your own husband.

Eph 5:24
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Eph 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

1Pe 3:1
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

Col 3:18
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord..

Your Husband is suppose to Love you

Col 3:19
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.

Eph 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

Eph 5:23
For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body..

You are not suppose to Sin against God to please your husband because God is still your Lord and GOD....he is not higher then your Husband. 

De 10:12
And now, Israel, what doth the LORD thy God require of thee, but to fear the LORD thy God, to walk in all his ways, and to love him, and to serve the LORD thy God with all thy heart and with all thy soul,

Pr 3:7
Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.

You will give an account to God one day for your actions you can never lose your Salvation but you will answer for your works....Your Husband is wrong and for you to obey him and not God is wrong to.

Pray about it,

I can only give you what the bible says.  what Gods word says . we are to live by it though you should no that.

He is not loving you if he wants you with another man.

If my husband ever said such a think I would cry and not understand how he and I alone are not enough. Sex is a beautiful thing. you should grow in it too and find ways to please eachohter that does not involve sinning against GOD who has already given you everything.

You are not married to the man he is having you be with in any way...and so you are committing adultry even if you are not having intercourse it is still sexual in nature you can commit adultry with your heart eyes and mind acording to the bible how much more is it to the way you are.

My husband and I will prayer for you.