An issue I haven't seen here.

[okiebornheavenbound]

Sexual sin can be very addictive and very destructive.

Let's talk about the other side of the issue.

When was the last time you flirted... with your wife?

Perhaps if we spent a little more time thinking about and romancing our wife we might find our sexual sin a little easier to deal with.

Scripture tells us to avoid fornication let every man have is own wife.

1 Corinthians 7:2-3  Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.  (3)  Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.


The Psalms says to be satisfied with your wife and it's not talking about her cooking.

Proverbs 5:17-20  Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee.  (18)  Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.  (19)  Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.  (20)  And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?

If we spend our sexual energies on our wives they will be satisfied and so will we.

Maybe that is God's plan to keep us out of sexual temptation.

First we have to repent and turn away form that kind of sin.

We have to ask God to forgive us.

Then we have to turn our attention to our wives.

Spend the time and energies we spent on our sin wooing our wives once again.

I have found far more pleasure in my wife's arms than I have in any fantasy.

So when was the last time you flirted with your wife?

Does anyone think I am wrong?

[JohnDB]

My wife & I csan be caught sexting each other every day we are at work.

So at the moment your sermonette is falling on deaf ears.

[fenton]

 
im not gonna say what me and my wife text about    

[DaveW]

No I do not flirt with my wife. 

Neither of us appreciate flirting at all. In fact in highschool, I came really close to coldcocking a couple of guys for flirting in the lunchroom.