what should i do.

[Abigail]

Hi Everyone. 

I have four children. When i was pregnant with my last, my husband blatantly told me he didn'twant the baby and that I should have an abortion which I decline. I convinced him and kept the baby. That was 2 years ago. Now am pregnant again and he already told me if i did I should get an abortion.

I don't believe in abortion as it opposses God's will. Am really confused what to do. 

Pls i need some advice.  Thank you.

[MeMyself]

You posted this in the women's forum as well.

The child is on the way. It has every right to life.  Don't take it out on that little one the fact that you and your dh did not do what is necessary to prevent another unwanted pregnancy.

You guys need to let go of what he didn't want and shift gears to "this is what is" so that this baby can be brought up in a home where he/she is loved and treated like the blessing they are....and then? Use birth control.

[Jason_NC]

Give birth.

Is your husband a Christian?  Is money an issue?  These 2 things should be considered before you do anything in the future.

If he is a Christian show him the verses that call children a blessing.  If not, and money is an issue, consider depo, or maybe even one of you getting "snipped".

[RB]

Pls i need some advice.  Thank you.

The child should have the right to live, and since he cannot speak for himself, then you must do so for the child. What would be Solomon's counsel with such an question? If I were your husband, I would fear for my life before God.

[raggthyme13]

Pls i need some advice.  Thank you.

The child should have the right to live, and since he cannot speak for himself, then you must do so for the child. What would be Solomon's counsel with such an question? If I were your husband, I would fear for my life before God.

Well said.

[Brisingr]

I would avoid having any more children until you figure out what's going on with him. Obviously, this guy is not liking the idea of more children.

You need to find out where his head is at, and sooner rather than later. There's some trouble going on here, sis.