Correcting penis curvature

[Ib2JC4e]

Sorry, I deleted this post I wrote because I regretted posting it. I didn't know how to delete posts, and I don't wanna go back and re-type it. I wrote a reply below to Dave_UK that explains everything I said in the original post. Thanks!

[RB]

Heavy-duty vise-grip with set Locking pliers should do the trick. Really? Did you need to bring this here? This is a private discussion issue~IF an issue at all! BTW...$100.00 is NO MONEY especially to someone who has watched porn during their life.

[Ib2JC4e]

Sorry for this thread, I know it was an odd question and tmi, please forgive me. I'll just pray about it. Thanks for your response!

[Dave_UK]

Heavy-duty vise-grip with set Locking pliers should do the trick. Really? Did you need to bring this here? This is a private discussion issue~IF an issue at all! BTW...$100.00 is NO MONEY especially to someone who has watched porn during their life.

judging by the topic title, my first reaction was that someone may have Peyronie's disease - which aint funny, making intercourse painful - it's said to affect some men over 40 with cause unknown - surgery not always successful.  There is also a birth defect which causes a similar problem,  the opening at the end of the urethra, being on the underside instead of the end, and there are usually curvature problems with erections - but surgery can remedy that issue!

[Ib2JC4e]

Hey, thanks for your reply Dave! You're right, it's not Peyronie's, but very similar.

Backstory: before I became a Christian roughly 3 years ago, I was heavy into pornography and masturbation. When I became a Christian, God got me out of that (praise God). But, in my human reasoning, I thought in order to please God, whenever I had an erection I had to push it down into my underwear, to the point of pain.

For a while, I wouldn't even look at my penis if I had an erection. Despite what you and other people may be thinking, my parents are not hyper-religious, actually the opposite! They're extremely godly people, but they're also extremely chill, and I love them with all my heart.

But, I'm 99% sure, based on my strange symptoms, other people's accounts who have this illness, and an extreme illness I had as a child, that I have PANS/PANDAS, and as a result, Scrupulosity, which may be why I'm asking these questions. BUT I have not gotten a clinical diagnosis though, so I can't be 100% sure.

Anyways, as of recently, I looked at my penis and saw it was extremely bent downwards when erect. And I want to correct it, so I can have a healthy relationship with my future spouse, but I don't know how to in a way that God's okay with. "What?" I know.

My top solution was to just simply stick it up in my underwear, but I don't know if that's too sensual or not, because there's a lot more sensation I suppose. I'm afraid that if I do that, I won't meet my wife or something, but I know in my logical mind that that's not true.

Anyways, my secondary option was to use something like QuickExtender or something similar, but I have reservations. I don't want to spend $100+ on something if I don't absolutely need it, alongside other reasons.

Jesus has carried me and helped me overcome lots of my beliefs about Him that hindered my relationship with Him, praise God, but I'm still working through it with the help of His Word, hence why I'm asking these questions. Sometimes I can't tell my hyper-religious thoughts that bother my conscience from my actually logical concerns.

Do I know how crazy these questions sound?
Yes, I am very aware. That's partly why I'm asking them, so I can hear my own reasoning "out loud", which often helps me a lot. I could've worked this out on a piece of paper by myself, but maybe it will help someone.
Is this TMI?
Perhaps, I don't know. It's just as much a vent and me working it out verbally as it is a question looking for godly guidance.
Is this a joke?
No, I'm just looking for advice. I don't really have anyone I can talk to about these sensitive subjects and ask about these things right now except Jesus, but thank God what a friend we have in Jesus!
Is this a cry for attention and sympathy?
No, I'm just venting and looking for some godly counsel. I have an extremely good life and I'm extremely grateful to God, although honestly not as much as I should be. I lack nothing in Christ.
Am I just looking for someone to put my conscience at ease and tell me what I want to hear?
No. I just want the advice of a godly man.

Anyways, apologies for my long-winded reply, just a lot to explain. Thanks for your reply Dave!

God bless you, and your family!

[Dave_UK]

Hi!  In the following quote of your post I've included a few comments "on-the-spot" within "[" brackets and high-lighted them in red - otherwise it might mean more referrals to/fro your text and any comments I might make after the quote.

Hey, thanks for your reply Dave! You're right, it's not Peyronie's, but very similar.

Backstory: before I became a Christian roughly 3 years ago, I was heavy into pornography and masturbation. When I became a Christian, God got me out of that (praise God). But, in my human reasoning, I thought in order to please God, whenever I had an erection I had to push it down into my underwear, to the point of pain.[That might be the root cause of your trouble.  If you do anything that you think is right (that comes from the inheritance of Adam's sinful nature) - it may definitely not be what the Lord wants you to do, which is to obey the leading/correction of His Holy Spirit resident in you by faith! Ask Him in your prayers, and "listen" to His leading/correction by His "still small voice" within you! "Christ in you the hope of glory to come."]


For a while, I wouldn't even look at my penis if I had an erection. Despite what you and other people may be thinking, my parents are not hyper-religious, actually the opposite! They're extremely godly people, but they're also extremely chill, and I love them with all my heart.

But, I'm 99% sure, based on my strange symptoms, other people's accounts who have this illness, and an extreme illness I had as a child, that I have PANS/PANDAS [I didn't know about this, so had to "Google" for info!], and as a result, Scrupulosity, which may be why I'm asking these questions. BUT I have not gotten a clinical diagnosis though, so I can't be 100% sure.[Think you really should get a doctor's assessment over the penile "deformity" during an erection - but the urge to get release of sexual tension can be quite natural in a young man, and occur periodically perhaps even when not "exposed" to stimuli from various sources - so I don't give much "weight" to the new-fangled idea of PANS/PANDAS being a possible reason for compulsive sexual behaviour, such as frequent habitual masturbation.]

Anyways, as of recently, I looked at my penis and saw it was extremely bent downwards when erect.[Think there may be a range of deviation from the horizontal when chaps have an erection, some pointing upwards and others a little downwards, depending on muscles in the groin area.  It's not "the end of the world" if one's erect penis has a downward slant!   ] And I want to correct it, so I can have a healthy relationship with my future spouse, but I don't know how to in a way that God's okay with. "What?" I know.

My top solution was to just simply stick it up in my underwear, [Just let it be! Whatever feels most comfortable - but an upward position is probably the best for "future use"!] but I don't know if that's too sensual or not, because there's a lot more sensation I suppose. I'm afraid that if I do that, I won't meet my wife or something, but I know in my logical mind that that's not true.

Anyways, my secondary option was to use something like QuickExtender or something similar, but I have reservations. I don't want to spend $100+ on something if I don't absolutely need it, alongside other reasons.

Jesus has carried me and helped me overcome lots of my beliefs about Him that hindered my relationship with Him, praise God, but I'm still working through it with the help of His Word, hence why I'm asking these questions. Sometimes I can't tell my hyper-religious thoughts that bother my conscience from my actually logical concerns.

Do I know how crazy these questions sound?
Yes, I am very aware. That's partly why I'm asking them, so I can hear my own reasoning "out loud", which often helps me a lot. I could've worked this out on a piece of paper by myself, but maybe it will help someone.
Is this TMI?
Perhaps, I don't know. It's just as much a vent and me working it out verbally as it is a question looking for godly guidance.
Is this a joke?
No, I'm just looking for advice. I don't really have anyone I can talk to about these sensitive subjects and ask about these things right now except Jesus, but thank God what a friend we have in Jesus!
Is this a cry for attention and sympathy?
No, I'm just venting and looking for some godly counsel. I have an extremely good life and I'm extremely grateful to God, although honestly not as much as I should be. I lack nothing in Christ.
Am I just looking for someone to put my conscience at ease and tell me what I want to hear?
No. I just want the advice of a godly man.

Anyways, apologies for my long-winded reply, just a lot to explain. Thanks for your reply Dave!

God bless you, and your family!

Am conscious of the fact that am unqualified to make comments!   Am possibly on the last few laps of life's race track - had 5 CABGs done in 2010 when 74, and it is said that the grafts may fail after about 10 years, or the original problem of clogged arteries may re-occur.  Furthermore, as one of the 10% of "unfortunates" after having a "TURPS" op when 55 - am impotent and all the "secretions" have dried up now!  However - am still subject to "wild feelings" - "wicked imaginings"- but through prayer the Lord has helped me a lot in this area.  Also I flip over quickly any newspaper articles, and avoid any TV programs, that might arouse wrong feelings.   Am in no position to "cluck about" purity, holiness and righteousness. Jesus is my only hope, as my "sin-offering" and Great High Priest. Jesus "Work of the Cross" has "justified" us in God's eyes, His gift of the Holy Spirit has been given to "sanctify" us (making us fit to dwell with Him at our end), if we submit to His correction/leading!

[Ib2JC4e]

Hi!  In the following quote of your post I've included a few comments "on-the-spot" within "[" brackets and high-lighted them in red - otherwise it might mean more referrals to/fro your text and any comments I might make after the quote.

Am conscious of the fact that am unqualified to make comments!   Am possibly on the last few laps of life's race track - had 5 CABGs done in 2010 when 74, and it is said that the grafts may fail after about 10 years, or the original problem of clogged arteries may re-occur.  Furthermore, as one of the 10% of "unfortunates" after having a "TURPS" op when 55 - am impotent and all the "secretions" have dried up now!  However - am still subject to "wild feelings" - "wicked imaginings"- but through prayer the Lord has helped me a lot in this area.  Also I flip over quickly any newspaper articles, and avoid any TV programs, that might arouse wrong feelings.   Am in no position to "cluck about" purity, holiness and righteousness. Jesus is my only hope, as my "sin-offering" and Great High Priest. Jesus "Work of the Cross" has "justified" us in God's eyes, His gift of the Holy Spirit has been given to "sanctify" us (making us fit to dwell with Him at our end), if we submit to His correction/leading!

Wow, praise God! And I think my life is hard, and I'm complaining! You've ran the race and fought the good fight. Well, your words remind me of what Paul said when he said that it is far better to be absent from the body, and present with the Lord. So many Bible verses come to mind about eternity, (well, really only a few come to mind, but I don't know where they are). And after our time is up here, then eternity begins. I'm not quite ripe myself yet, hardly old enough to drive, not at the point where my body is turning against me yet, bless your heart. Your wisdom is very much appreciated.

But yeah, sometimes it's hard to tell if I'm being hyper-holy and obsessive, or if it's the Holy Spirit guiding me. But, the truth, the Bible, says that God is not a god of confusion, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. Alongside Romans 8, which says that we have not recieved a spirit of slavery leading to fear, but of adoption, by which we cry out "Father!"

P.S. I had too look up too what a CABG and a TURPS was too!

Stay strong! Keep fighting! You can beat Methuselah! As long as you still have work to do for the Lord, you'll be on this earth.

God bless you!