Prayer for transgender woman who is my husband and shortly having breast implant

[JULIETTE]

Please pray for my husband of 5 years who is flying on his way to Bangkok to have an operation for gender reassignment surgery, to have breast implants. I only found out about this 2 weeks ago and have been praying against this from happening.  My husband is a Christian man who has struggled with Cross dressing and Gender Dysphoria for years since he was young. He grew up with severe abuse and neglect,  his mother used to assault him when he was young and tell him that he should of been a girl, and this is where I believe the damage was done, where he then disassociated as a female personality. He was having Christian ministry for these issues with healing and deliverance ministry but now he has stopped that and decided that he can't fight these feeling any longer. We separated 3 months ago after I found that he had been on a bisexual website and when confronted, he admitted that he had been unfaithful to me with other men. The desire to dress as a woman became intense after his father died last year and his work then allowed him to dress as a woman This has been extremely difficult for me. I am also a Chaplain in a volunteer role and this has sent me into a tailspin. I am concerned about the cross dressing around my 13 year old son. After we separated he has been living his life as a woman and he wants to stay married to me but as person who wears female clothes and now with breast implants.  I am praying for God to stop this surgery and for my husband to have the healing that he needs but he has put one foot into the devil's territory and he has gone down the slippery slope fast. I still love my husband and am praying for GOd to work a miracle here.  He has come from a life of drug addiction but was saved and became a Chrisitan helping many others who have also struggled with drug and alcohol addiction. God was using him to minister to many people but now our marriage has become one big mess. I did believe that God was going to use him to bring many people to Christ who have struggled with gender identity. Please pray that God's will be done in his life and in our marriage.

[4WD]

You should seek professional help.  You are going to need as much or more help than your husband if you keep him in your life.

And clearly you have every biblical right for a divorce.

[RB]

And clearly you have every biblical right for a divorce

Asolutely! This falls "under" the sin of fornication.  Divorce AND free to remarriage.

[Rella]

After we separated he has been living his life as a woman and he wants to stay married to me but as person who wears female clothes and now with breast implants.  I am praying for God to stop this surgery and for my husband to have the healing that he needs but he has put one foot into the devil's territory and he has gone down the slippery slope fast.

I am so sorry your are having to endure this. As has been suggested you, yourself, need counseling... not for acceptance but for strength.

You said he already admitted to being unfaithful to you with other men.... AS IN PLURAL.

This will be an all consuming drive for him especially once he is more of a woman.

Not to forget that if you stay married to one who claims to be a woman, and looks like one...not to mention your children and how they will be ridiculed in growing up.... many will think you are a lesbian couple....

And you know God calls homosexuality an abomination....

You do not want to be perceived as one by those who do not know your story.

As has been suggested, and as painful as it will be... you do need to divorce him.

[johntwayne]

Praying