Starla keeps seeing ex unexpectedily every 5 to 6 years

[starla]

Hello everybody

I had this experience last Thursday when doing one of my demo jobs at Walmart. I saw one of ex boyfriends.Me and him was boyfriend and girlfriend for three and a half months when I was 15 then he broke up with me.We talked for a little bit when I was doing a demo.He went away to do something then came back to my table and I gave him my cell phone number.We talked later that night and when I asked him for his phone number he said he could not give it to me because he is still in love with one of his exes.He told me that he is single and he just broke up with his ex girlfriend.He asked me do I want him to wait a couple of days before his feelings are really over with his ex,I told him that I do not to be the girlfriend whose boyfriend in is love with his other ex.So he said he will call me which I don't think he will call again because I have not heard from him nor have any messages from him. I've known this guy since I was 15 and he was 13.A few months after he broke up with me in that same year he called me and I told him at that time I did not want to get back with him.Then I saw him again a year later and at that time I already had another boyfriend.Then six years later I saw him again in Walmart and he was with a girl,I had another boyfriend at that time.I kind of miss not talking to him,sort of.Why do I say that I guess because he is easy to talk to.What do yall think,Do you think the reason why he did not want to give me his number is of possibility hiding something or do you think he would not give me his number because he is still not totally over his ex.What does giving my number have something to do with him getting over his ex.I don't believe he will call again.Is it a good thing or not  to get back together with one of your exes.

[Mere Nick]

Although I speak of the pompetous of love, it's just one dude's opinion.

I'd be a little hinky about someone who wants your phone number but won't give you his.  Think about the reasons why and see if your hinkometer doesn't spike.

[janine]

Yeah.  What he said.

[starla]

Although I speak of the pompetous of love, it's just one dude's opinion.

I'd be a little hinky about someone who wants your phone number but won't give you his.  Think about the reasons why and see if your hinkometer doesn't spike.

I believe he has something to hide like another girlfriend or married even though he said that he is single.Maybe he has an secret life that's illegal

[janine]

He's a retread.  Move forward.

[Mere Nick]

Although I speak of the pompetous of love, it's just one dude's opinion.

I'd be a little hinky about someone who wants your phone number but won't give you his.  Think about the reasons why and see if your hinkometer doesn't spike.

I believe he has something to hide like another girlfriend or married even though he said that he is single.Maybe he has an secret life that's illegal

That's what I was thinking.  It's good to see your hinkometer in working order.

[starla]

He's a retread.  Move forward.

What is a retread

[James Rondon]

James says you should move on, and make sure the person you would date is a follower of the Lord Jesus.

[angeleyes]

IMO, there is nothing wrong with getting back with an ex as long as he is a Christian and believes as you believe, but in this case i think that he probably does have something to hide and that you should just wait for God to send your husband to you. In the meantime keep your eyes, mind, and heart on Jesus Christ and spend as much time as you can with the Lord.

[msbradley]

Starla, I agree, move on. I bet he has something to hide.
I also believe there is nothing wrong with going back to an ex, FOR THE RIGHT REASONS!
If a guy wouldn't give me his #, but wanted mine, I'd think there was something he wasn't willing to share, so I'd not give him mine. I usually don't call the guy, but I at least have their #.

[starla]

That same night I prayed to the Lord to show me if it is in the Lords will that he would continue to call and maybe get back together.Well the Lord surely showed me something allright,I have not heard from that dude since he called me that same night.

Lord! oh Lord when will that Mr.right guy come along said by Starla