How to deal with the heartbreak of my husband leaving me

[elijah_101]

This is a very Hard saying...Please have a Open Mind..and think about this...

Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,

And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife:

and they twain shall be one flesh?

Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. Matt 19:4-6

God Joined you...And as Long as your Husband is Alive you cannot Marry

The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.1 Cor 7:39


Who will you Believe ?

Man?

says you can remarry

or God?

Who says you cant

whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Matt 5:32

Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
Luke 16:18

For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.

So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress:

but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:2-3

yea, let God be true, but every man a liar; as it is written...Romans 3:4

But the word of the Lord endureth for ever... 1 Peter 1:25

[BornAgain]

Shalina you are in my prayers. I know your heartache. Mine aches everyday for my failed marriage too..................God Bless You


Elijah.........................GET A LIFE !!

[elijah_101]

Sorry ... I know this is hard

These are the Words of God

Not mine...Get your bible a look them up....

[Tantor]

Sorry ... I know this is hard

These are the Words of God

Not mine...Get your bible a look them up....

Actually they are your SPIN on what you THINK the bible says.

Beware of false teachers... someone who preaches from a corrupt translation who bends word to suit their own desires.

Your eyes are causing you to sin and your tongue is bearing false witness.

The Bible says that you should poke your eye out if it causes you to sin... but I bet you lack the courage or conviction to do what the bible says in this regard... but you would sure council others to do it.

In the end you are nothing but a coward.

[chosenone]

I believe I did nothing wrong and the Lord knows that.  HE is the one that committed fornication.  How can that be MY fault?  I have not dated 1 man since he left 3 years ago and we have been officially divorced 8 months.  I did not want the divorce at all.  I went to DivorceCare, a Christian support group for people that are or getting a divorce.  The common three words I heard were "I never thought".  In all the cases  where they were left by their spouse it was always because they wanted to be with someone else.  Through DivorceCare I realized it was the path he chose to take and there was nothing I could do about it except pray and heal throught the Lord.

Shalina, please dont let anyone make you feel bad or guilty. elijah has told me countless times that I am committing adultery becuase I am remarried.I however KNOW that I am not becuase my first husband committed sexual immorality in a terrible way, and 3 years later, God led me to divorce him. Years later,God bought a wondeful man into my life and three years ago we married.
Elijah doesnt bother me, he is only 24 years old, unmarried, and has BIG problem with this subject, in fact he seems to be obsessed with it.
God is on your case, You did ALL that you could , and you have nothing to feel bad or guilty about.
Your husband is the one who broke the marriage covenant, not you, and he will not hold you responsible for something that you didnt do,a nd He will not expect you to suffer for it for the rest of your life. God is the God of new beginnings and believe me I never thought that I would ever be happy again but I am, and that is dowm 100% to God.
bless you and dont ever loose hope.

[mikesayen]

The bible says you are bound to your husband "as long as he lives"1 Cor 7:39.  don't get remarried, even if he does.. until he dies, freeing you from the law of your husband (so to speak) from below...

The proper word used in Rom 7:2 could be translated "bound of law