I didn't see this coming...

[chosenone]

I think I went to the wrong forum, all the more I feel messed up after reading some of your posts.  I’m not sure now if God will still forgive me even if I have asked for his forgiveness and repented.  I feel so small, unworthy to the point of suicidal …I’m so depressed but I deserve all these, not sure now if He will still accept me, a filthy sinner, a loser.  It’s my fault, I don’t deny that

Thanks to all who took time to answer, some were helpful though.  I’m unsubscribing from this forum.  Sorry, I’m so sorry

I dont think that anyone has suggested that you cannot be forgiven. I think the problems is that YOU dont think that you can be forgiven. The advice to tell your husband and immediatly stop the affair and any contact with the other man is the only way I think. Someone said not to tell him but how could you live with that lie for the rest of your life?I know that I couldnt.
It would be like a cancer growing and growing inside. You have to tell him, but I would leave what happens with the other man and his wife to them and God. It will probably come out anyway.I think that part of the repentance is telling your husband and saying sorry and asking for his forgiveness. it is then up to him as to the next step.

[avenger]

You'll get no sympathy from me.  If I were your husband I'd kick you to the curb never to cast eyes on you again.  No one has the right to destroy other people's lives the way you have.  Through repentance and prayer I'm sure God will forgive you and give you a new start.

By the way, that poop about the inlaws is just that.......POOP!  And you know it too.

Good luck to you,

Avenger

I don't think she came here looking for sympathy. It appears she came looking for strength from fellowship to stop the sinning. Too bad you did not care to be a part encouraging righteousness.

BTW, Christian, I am so glad God did not kick us to the curb when Adam fell.

I'm sorry you don't agree with my response to her post, but I didn't buy her excuse about the "in-laws".  If her husband were truly the "saint" in every other way (as she made him out to be) then there is no way she would have started screwing another man because she had "suffered" by living with the in-laws!  It was nothing more than the sin of wanting the forbidden...one set of glands calling another....that's it!  She answered the call and in-so-doing she has destroyed the lives of numerous people including her own children!  No, she will get no pat on the head from me!
As far as me not being able to forgive the way God does.......well I'll have to apologize for that too because I'm an imperfect follower of Christ, a work in progress if you will, there are some things that my sinful nature just won't allow me to do, and forgiving someone who destroys innocent life is but one of them.

I'm sorry,

Avenger

[kensington]

She didn't lie when she said you came here to stalk her.  You did come here to stalk her, Chosenone... there was a WHOLE thread on this "she said, she said" junk locked and deleted by the mods...  Trust me.  I have no reason to lie to you.  Go back to the first post vindicator made in this thread and see that she came in here SPECIFICALLY to taunt Yellowrose.  And now it's this game one snitching on the other for past sins... Vindicator started it.

But, vindicator... this thread is not about you or she, it's about someone else, and you're turning into the battle that insued here with the two of you, and your other friend is just ridiculous... leave people alone.  Let this thread alone...  If you can't do that, you don't belong here. 

All this tattle tale about someone's past sins is what got the other thread locked...  I'm reporting this, and you in hopes that the Mods will take what you are doing again and again into their hands and deal with it. 

[fanuvmxpx]

As for me, after reading what PinkScorpion wrote last, how sad and dejected she became after coming here looking for strength and then getting chewed to pieces instead....I don't like this place. Good-bye.

If you two are going to fight like alley cats, then you need to do it via email and not involve others who aren't fully aware of the situation.

[Jimmy]

In reading through this I didn't see anyone saying that the husband probably got what he deserved.  If he had been a man and not some momma's boy who couldn't leave home, none of this might have happened.  That of course is no excuse for the behavior here but it certainly seems to be the reason.

Personally, I think she should read the riot act to the husband for not being a husband, father, and head of the household.  She should have laid down an ultimatim years ago.  His choice  --  parents or wife and family.

I agree... she should have done something about her living situation... long ago.   She didn't.  She took another woman's man instead, so that is what we are dealing with.

Yes but perhaps she needs to get to the root of the problem.  It is clear, at least from the OP, that more that just a "don't do that any more" condemnation is needed.

[zoonance]

But God is love so any admonishment to a believer who asks for advise is from the father of hate and lies.

[Jimmy]

But God is love so any admonishment to a believer who asks for advise is from the father of hate and lies.

Humor or no, that one goes over my head.

[kensington]

But God is love so any admonishment to a believer who asks for advise is from the father of hate and lies.

What are you talking about?  Admonishment comes from the LORD, it is correction, and we are to give it.  Those whom He loves, He corrects... He used Paul, John, James, John the Baptists and even He corrected and rebuked sin.  Your comment makes no sense at all.  Did you fall asleep in the middle of typing it and perhaps drop some words that would have brought it together?   

[fanuvmxpx]

But God is love so any admonishment to a believer who asks for advise is from the father of hate and lies.

Then I am in a lot of trouble when I witness to people, don't want to offend anyone with the Truth after all

[kensington]

Wait, be patient, we are trying to figure out what he was really saying...  LOL. 

[Wycliffes_Shillelagh]

How about you move out of your in-laws house and tell your husband to follow if he wants you?

I know...bad advice.