Homosexuality In The World

[Seriousseeker]

This is a noteworthy subject to consider in our day.

- Seriousseeker

HOMOSEXUALITY  IN  OUR  SOCIETY

[This is not a subject about "gay" people, as many call this matter, for there is little gay about homosexuality.  The slang or colloquial usage of the word --which properly means "fast or sudden", is rejected here. We are talking about a perversion of human nature that is insidious as moral decay, and while it has been around through the ages, the growing social acceptance and defense of it may bring the judgment of God on many nations who are moving to approve it in their societies.]

There are four essential things I believe would be helpful to understand today about homosexuality, and perhaps one might have occasion to share this with someone who is confused and leaning that way:

1. It is a learned behavior and not an inborn condition.  God did not make homosexual people, as one can tell by careful reading of His Word, and God condemns it (e.g. Rom.1:24-27, I Cor.6:9; I Cor.11:14).

2. It is important to understand that effeminate men and mannish women are not necessarily homosexual.  A hormonal imbalance from the norm reportedly produces the effeminate and mannish characteristics, which are fairly common in the world.  It is parental, societal, and peer influence which produces the problems and pushes these young people into homosexual activity.   It is urgently important to help such persons feel accepted so they can learn to handle any questions or discrimination over their emotional differences from the norm (just as we would with other physical or mental differences).  Our society is contributing to the problem of homosexuality by believing the idea that people are born a homosexual type, and then are trying to make the behavior legitimate to accommodate them.  Schools, parents, medical services, and our public health agencies need to do more to teach the truth, and not perpetuate the myth.   

3. We all know of several people who have this imbalance who are happily married and well-adjusted.  Some people have less attraction to the opposite sex, and may choose to not marry, or may marry one who has the opposite characteristics (e.g. an effeminate man choosing a mannish woman for his wife).  One may be suspected by strangers of being homosexual, and they may be shunned by some or discriminated against, but if they have a good support system they can overlook this and go forth.  Personally, I would rather have an effeminate man wait on me in offices, stores, restaurants, hospitals, and other kinds of customer services, for they are usually more sensitive, considerate and helpful---perhaps a special gift by God.

4. The word "effeminate" in I Corinthians 6:9 may have been a poor choice of words by the translators of the KJV Bible, for it does not have the same meaning today.  It could have been translated as "those who make women of themselves" (see The New Translation - JND).

More could be said about this subject, but these are the essential issues, which ought to be prayerfully considered (especially the Word of God).  One ought to first of all have a desire to honor God, and live a normal life.   - R.L.D., 4/03

[Hehealedme]

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[truth945]

How Some Homosexuality is Created

An entity might take on a certain form of behavior as a reaction to a
parental behavior rather than as a genetic response from the parental
behavior. This Awareness indicates in other words, one parent may be
highly overweight and the child may have a propensity to over-eat but
may be so offended by the parent's overweight that even as a young
child, the entity abhors the idea of gaining weight, and looking like
his parent. So, instead, he eats small portions of food, knowing that it
will keep him from getting obese. This would be a kind of reaction
to the parent rather than a genetic reflection of the parent.

This Awareness indicates that likewise, an entity who is homosexual is
not necessarily testimony that the entity's parent was homosexual. The
entity's parent may have been quite heterosexual, but something the
parent did in his or her behavior toward the child could perhaps have
triggered a reaction in the child that led the child to become
homosexual.

Many lesbians, for example, have experienced rape from their fathers and
have such an hostility toward men because of the incestuous relationship
with their fathers that they cannot relate to men at all, and therefore
turn to women for their affection.

This Awareness indicates that similarly, homosexuality in men can
sometimes be triggered by a relationship with the mother in which
perhaps there is some kind of attraction or perhaps an hostility toward
the mother. The attraction perhaps causing guilt and causing the entity
to be abhorred at his own feelings and the reaction being to drive the
boy toward other young men rather than toward women.

It is not necessarily that this is a cause, but it is not an unusual
situation which leads some entities into the homosexual route, due to
reaction rather than genetics. There is some genetic influence that
occurs with some homosexuals, particularly when they are in the midst of
a change, moving from a woman's body in one life toward a man's body in
another life, and they perhaps still feel feminine inside while having a
masculine body wrapped around the feminine soul.

This Awareness indicates that there are so many different variations
involved that it is impossible to explain all the many ways by which
entities become what they are. This Awareness indicates however, that
entities can change themselves when given proper incentive to do so.



WHAT MOTIVATES THE MACHO HOMOSEXUAL?

FOLLOW-UP QUESTION:

There are some male homosexuals who appear to be very macho, and will
become bikers and get into certain sports and body-building. These
homosexuals that Awareness just indicated are sometimes sort of in
between lifetimes, and still carrying over a feminine valence; it seems
to me it would be more difficult for these entities to change than it
would be for the other homosexuals who don't carry these feminine
characteristics. Is that correct?

COSMIC AWARENESS:

This is in the affirmative. This Awareness indicates that a more macho
type of homosexual is acting out a kind of aggression against men in
their homosexuality. They appear in general to have a feeling of
aversion toward women, or in some cases, they are attracted to both, but
the homosexuality aspect appears to be related to a kind of subdued
aggression toward men.

They would like to punish or hurt the man whom they feel drawn to. This
Awareness indicates much of this has to do with sado-masochistic
approaches or attitudes deep in the subconscious also. In some cases,
the homosexual has a background in which women have been made to seem
taboo, either because they could cause trouble by having babies or by
some other reason to fear them. Perhaps they are too much like their
domineering mother in the entity's mind. They are afraid of being close
to women, and in some cases feel guilty about getting too close to
women, and therefore, they feel it is more proper to be with men than
with women. This kind of behavioral pattern often starts with the young
boy who has been warned heavily and severely about  respecting women and
not doing anything nasty.

This Awareness indicates that this kind of teaching can, in some cases,
become obsessive to the boy, if the boy has had attraction toward women
and fears it is going to cause extreme problems, so that instead he will
turn his attention in the opposite direction and find men to be more
safe for his expressions. This Awareness indicates there are many ways
whereby entities can have their love/hate relationships, their
compensations. Some entities choose food and have this love relationship
going with food which can eventually, in excess, lead to hatred and
guilt and all kinds of similar feelings. Others may have their love
centered around people or centered around fantasies of the opposite or
same sex.

There are many ways whereby entities may live their fantasies or seek to
fulfill their appetites. This Awareness indicates that the obsessions
and excess is that which often leads into the perversion of the normal
or natural life. The perversions coming from too much of one thing or
too strong an attitude toward something.

This Awareness indicates that when entities can balance their psyche to
that of a kind of Golden Mean wherein they reside halfway between all
polarities, between all extremes, in perfect balance, most of these
distortions of personality are diminished and the entity can find a
unique and very harmonious state of being.