what should i do

[accacc]

hi,

I have this problem,
I recently saw this guy, whos sort of smart,
I have fallen for this guy,
but lots of girls seem to like him,
I also saw he had a girlfriend, for 3-4 years,
but now they've left,
for some  reason i like want to like him & yet feel like wanting to forget him,
any help on what should i do,
i feel very sad
thankyou

[chosenone]

if he has a regular girlfriend then you need to forget him.

[comfy]

I would say there are men who are interested in you, because they are Christians who love you. But this does not mean we want to marry you. Jesus wants us to love everyone. So, you might get to know Christian people who love you because we love everyone. Get to know these really Christian people, first. And do not get too interested in just one guy who you don't even know. Why not get to know guys, first, so you know what they are feeling, instead of being interested in a guy who is such a stranger that you don't know where he's at?

I think if you ask a Christian man a question about how he feels about you, he will give you a clear answer. And you can trust someone who is Christian, so you can ask. So, if you don't trust someone enough to ask him, may be you should leave it that way. And how could he be interested in you, if he doesn't even know you and talk with you? Maybe, instead, get more with Christian people who know you and communicate with you. God bless you; please enjoy sharing with us, here, while you are at it

[accacc]

thankyou for your answers,

yes, I haven't met this guy, but why do I feel like I don't like him when actually I do,

[accacc]

Hello,

I had written about this guy,
& now he is single,
a few other girls like him too,

recently I came to know his email address,
& like me there are others who like him

I don't know whether to write to him or not,
he lives in a different country so I can't  make friends so fast,

I wanted to meet him in about a month or maybe 2-4 months time,
at the same time,

should I write to him,

I was wanting to actually first meet him.

thanks.

[comfy]

Liking someone when you don't even know the guy . . . be careful, go easy.

Others may like him . . . but they may not even know him.

So, what good is it, if you all don't even know the guy

It doesn't matter how many of you like him, if none of you really know him!

[accacc]

hi,

I had written last about this guy,

he had a girlfriend for 3-4 years,

now he is single,

as I am told, but he still gives videos of him, some of his friends & her on his site,

& hasn't removed his picture with her,

is he still thinking of her,

how can one know if a guy is forgotten her,

thanks

[contactdaniel24]

For girls, attraction isn't a choice. It can be difficult to see past a man you like. You need to accept he has a chick and try to let time help you move on.

[comfy]

If you don't even know the guy, it is kind of hard to know what is going on with him.

But we can know Jesus, in us, so we know what He wants!

"But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him." (1 Corinthians 6:17)

We can count on Jesus our Groom to communicate with us, but humans may not even know, themselves, what is happening with themselves! So, even if the guy were to tell you what's happening with him, still he might not really know or he could be telling you something just to control how you feel. So, it is better to put our attention with someone we can trust who is Jesus, instead of guessing and getting confused about strangers.