Moving on to Fresh, New Purpose-driven post divorce

[CoachD]

Hello there :-)  Need some help from my fellow divorcees please :-)

My name is Dawn and I'm a Christian Life Coach...I have been divorced for a decade and have with the help of God been able to move on and develop a healthy relationship with my ex. It took some time but with Gods grace, spiritual and personal development I have managed to turn things around and now heading into God purpose in a passionate way!
I have realized that this is a very, very difficult for some of my sisters in Christ,and I really want to coach, teach and write to be an instrument of Gods transformation.

I am trying to find out:
WHAT IS /WAS YOUR GREATEST OBSTACLE IN MOVING ON FROM YOUR DIVORCE TO CREATING A NEW LIFE OF PURPOSE?
WHAT KIND OF HELP WOULD YOU NEED TO MOVE ON?

I know what helped me,  but i really want to hear from my sisters on their journey.
I hope you can take some time to respond.

God bless! CoachD