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Trust Problems Holding Us Back

Started by kool_kid_86, Thu Mar 26, 2015 - 22:12:23

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My girlfriend and I have been dating for several months and we both love each other very much. Unfortunately, our relationship might not last due to trust problems. I cheated on my very first girlfriend, and my girlfriend is very scared that I would cheat on her. In addition, when we were first started dating I kept on talking about my ex's which made my girlfriend feel very uneasy. Her brain keeps on telling her that I will not be a faithful boyfriend, but her heart loves me very much. I know in my heart that I love my girlfriend very much and that I will remain faithful by her side indefinitely.

My question is: is there anything I can do to help gain back the trust that is lost? Are there any discussions that my girlfriend and I should have so that we can overcome this challenge together?

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When you say cheated do you mean sexually? If so do you realise that for Christian sex before marriage is forbidden?Are you both Christians?

I can understand her trust issues, the only thing that will help is a lot of time, but for a woman security is so important and some women may not feel able to marry a guy who has done that. I am sorry to say that if a person has done that once they are more likely to do it again, and as for talking about ex girlfriends, always a bad idea. ::eek::   

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