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So, I am 19 and in college.  No this isn't a troll post or anything of the sorts. My entire life I have been trying to come to terms with this fat fetish. I am only attracted to bigger guys. Basically the fetishy part is when the guy puts on weight. Not to wear they are morbidly obese or anything but just kinda chubby and they are still healthy. My entire life I feel like God hates me for having this fetish but, now i'm starting to question this. Is it truly a sin? I've been praying about this for months now and still don't know that answer.

I still feel feel horrible though. I am a proud Christian and feel like I am going to hell if I ever engage in this fetish at all. The reason I'm confused about this is because even though this is a strange fetish it is my only way I can sexually bond with a man and be intimate. Do you think this fetish is a sin or am I overthinking all of this. Any response is appreciated, Thank you.

Quote from: Zelda64 on Thu Mar 19, 2020 - 20:40:31
So, I am 19 and in college.  No this isn't a troll post or anything of the sorts. My entire life I have been trying to come to terms with this fat fetish. I am only attracted to bigger guys. Basically the fetishy part is when the guy puts on weight. Not to wear they are morbidly obese or anything but just kinda chubby and they are still healthy. My entire life I feel like God hates me for having this fetish but, now i'm starting to question this. Is it truly a sin? I've been praying about this for months now and still don't know that answer.

I still feel feel horrible though. I am a proud Christian and feel like I am going to hell if I ever engage in this fetish at all. The reason I'm confused about this is because even though this is a strange fetish it is my only way I can sexually bond with a man and be intimate. Do you think this fetish is a sin or am I overthinking all of this. Any response is appreciated, Thank you.

You are overthinking

How so?

Quote from: Zelda64 on Thu Mar 19, 2020 - 21:31:22
How so?

I like women who have bigger butts and breasts, but have a slim waist. 

Other men like big ol' gals. Then others like sticks.

Its the gaining aspect that scares me though it not just being attracted to larger men. Is that a sin?

Quote from: Zelda64 on Thu Mar 19, 2020 - 22:16:31
Its the gaining aspect that scares me though it not just being attracted to larger men. Is that a sin?

Why would it be?

Quote from: Zelda64 on Thu Mar 19, 2020 - 20:40:31
So, I am 19 and in college.  No this isn't a troll post or anything of the sorts. My entire life I have been trying to come to terms with this fat fetish. I am only attracted to bigger guys. Basically the fetishy part is when the guy puts on weight. Not to wear they are morbidly obese or anything but just kinda chubby and they are still healthy.

Not a sin.  You go find yourself a bit heavy Christian fellow! 

I think your issue is not with God, but with Hollywood's standard of what an attractive guy should look like.  But, be warned, someone a bit heavy at 20 is probably going to have a hard time avoiding becoming morbidly obese later in life.  Make being healthy a lifestyle choice for you and your man.