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Is horrible.  I tryed to date someone, and all thanks to GOD nothing happened.  But I am looking for a single CHRISTian female.  I am 35, Live in Ohio, and can call to talk whenever you want.  Sorry if I seem desperate, but like I said I am 35.  To old to still be single.

Why do you think you're still single? 
And no, I'm not available.  Just curious.

I love the single life. It's better than living with someone who is a detriment to your health, happiness, and well-being. It is better than living with a wife who constantly cheats on you. It is better than living with a wife (second one) who constantly criticizes everything you say and do. It's better than living with someone who steals from you or complains about everything.

I realize that some people can't live alone and be happy, but some of us can. It took me two failed marriages and other people living with me to realize that. To me happiness is being able to do whatever you want, whenever you want, in your own home--as long as God approves of it.

Quote from: w8ing4daybreak on Wed Oct 08, 2008 - 19:14:26
Why do you think you're still single? 
And no, I'm not available.  Just curious.

No worries I saw you were happily married.  But to answer your question.  People around here are not CHRISTian, or at least they do not believe in CHRISTian values, and I guess I am sorta picky in that department.  I admit I was not always a good guy.  But since I have been saved I have tried to live my life the way that GOD wants me to.  And I guess I am looking for a lady that is following GOD's will as well and not satans.

But that is my opinion...lol.

Quote from: MegaJedi on Thu Oct 09, 2008 - 13:42:10

Quote from: w8ing4daybreak on Wed Oct 08, 2008 - 19:14:26
Why do you think you're still single? 
And no, I'm not available.  Just curious.

No worries I saw you were happily married.  But to answer your question.  People around here are not CHRISTian, or at least they do not believe in CHRISTian values, and I guess I am sorta picky in that department.  I admit I was not always a good guy.  But since I have been saved I have tried to live my life the way that GOD wants me to.  And I guess I am looking for a lady that is following GOD's will as well and not satans.

But that is my opinion...lol.

Aim high and you will not be brought low. I guess you are going to have to expand your search area. It will be like an archeologist looking for that one gem. It (she) will not be perfect but with a little "polishing", it (she) will shine. 

If you really want to get married, you might need to broaden you views on who might seem acceptable.  There's got to be some good Christian young ladies in Ohio somewhere...

Quote from: w8ing4daybreak on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 10:53:47
If you really want to get married, you might need to broaden you views on who might seem acceptable.  There's got to be some good Christian young ladies in Ohio somewhere...

I know of a Wiccan in FL. that likes me.  But I fear that may make me a bad guy.

Quote from: MegaJedi on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 16:32:10

Quote from: w8ing4daybreak on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 10:53:47
If you really want to get married, you might need to broaden you views on who might seem acceptable.  There's got to be some good Christian young ladies in Ohio somewhere...

I know of a Wiccan in FL. that likes me.  But I fear that may make me a bad guy.

I didn't mean that broad a view!  I really don't know you... so I wasn't sure how "picky" you were being.  I mean what if she had mousy brown hair and was overweight and had a bad complection and crooked teeth, but was a good sweet Christian girl... sometimes ladies like that get overlooked.  You know what I mean?  I know a guy near here that got married in his 40's to such a lady.  They had know each other for years... and it finally just clicked.  He's happy.

Quote from: Jon-Marc on Thu Oct 09, 2008 - 12:43:22
It is better than living with a wife (second one) who constantly criticizes everything you say and do.

You can have it another way?!

Quote from: Howdyboyalan on Mon Oct 13, 2008 - 20:14:47

Quote from: Jon-Marc on Thu Oct 09, 2008 - 12:43:22
It is better than living with a wife (second one) who constantly criticizes everything you say and do.

You can have it another way?!

My hubby says I do that, but quite honestly I only criticize half of what he says and does.  Really!!! ;-)

Quote from: MegaJedi on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 16:32:10

I know of a Wiccan in FL. that likes me.  But I fear that may make me a bad guy.

Personally, I would never be involved with a Wiccan. Of course, I haven't done any better with women who claimed to Christians.

Quote from: MegaJedi on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 16:32:10

Quote from: w8ing4daybreak on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 10:53:47
If you really want to get married, you might need to broaden you views on who might seem acceptable.  There's got to be some good Christian young ladies in Ohio somewhere...

I know of a Wiccan in FL. that likes me.  But I fear that may make me a bad guy.

You need to get as far away from any wiccan as possible, They worship Satan, They will tell you they don't, But they are deeply involved in witchcraft, that is all away to open the door to Satan & his workers to enter your life.

Quote from: Bigdog on Tue Oct 14, 2008 - 09:09:56

Quote from: MegaJedi on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 16:32:10

Quote from: w8ing4daybreak on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 10:53:47
If you really want to get married, you might need to broaden you views on who might seem acceptable.  There's got to be some good Christian young ladies in Ohio somewhere...

I know of a Wiccan in FL. that likes me.  But I fear that may make me a bad guy.

You need to get as far away from any wiccan as possible, They worship Satan, They will tell you they don't, But they are deeply involved in witchcraft, that is all away to open the door to Satan & his workers to enter your life.

Also, if try to breakup with her she might turn you into a frog.

Quote from: Bigdog on Tue Oct 14, 2008 - 09:09:56
You need to get as far away from any wiccan as possible, They worship Satan, They will tell you they don't, But they are deeply involved in witchcraft, that is all away to open the door to Satan & his workers to enter your life.

As far as I know there is only the True God and the god of this world, the devil, that people can choose to serve. The devil uses all kinds of names to fool people, but if they're not serving God, they're serving satan.

Quote from: w8ing4daybreak on Mon Oct 13, 2008 - 20:12:48

Quote from: MegaJedi on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 16:32:10

Quote from: w8ing4daybreak on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 10:53:47
If you really want to get married, you might need to broaden you views on who might seem acceptable.  There's got to be some good Christian young ladies in Ohio somewhere...

I know of a Wiccan in FL. that likes me.  But I fear that may make me a bad guy.

I didn't mean that broad a view!  I really don't know you... so I wasn't sure how "picky" you were being.  I mean what if she had mousy brown hair and was overweight and had a bad complection and crooked teeth, but was a good sweet Christian girl... sometimes ladies like that get overlooked.  You know what I mean?  I know a guy near here that got married in his 40's to such a lady.  They had know each other for years... and it finally just clicked.  He's happy.

I do not judge a person by that, heck many of my ex's are just like you described...lol.  And I am missing a few teeth myself.

Quote from: Rahn on Tue Oct 14, 2008 - 12:08:27

Quote from: Bigdog on Tue Oct 14, 2008 - 09:09:56

Quote from: MegaJedi on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 16:32:10

Quote from: w8ing4daybreak on Fri Oct 10, 2008 - 10:53:47
If you really want to get married, you might need to broaden you views on who might seem acceptable.  There's got to be some good Christian young ladies in Ohio somewhere...

I know of a Wiccan in FL. that likes me.  But I fear that may make me a bad guy.

You need to get as far away from any wiccan as possible, They worship Satan, They will tell you they don't, But they are deeply involved in witchcraft, that is all away to open the door to Satan & his workers to enter your life.

Also, if try to breakup with her she might turn you into a frog.

That may be an improvement...lol.  And to the others that is why I am not there, I too believe that Wicca is a form of satan worshiping.  The Bible says that our GOD is the only GOD in the entire Bible.  And that JESUS is the only way there.

Quote from: MegaJedi on Wed Oct 08, 2008 - 17:54:30
Is horrible.  I tryed to date someone, and all thanks to GOD nothing happened.  But I am looking for a single CHRISTian female.  I am 35, Live in Ohio, and can call to talk whenever you want.  Sorry if I seem desperate, but like I said I am 35.  To old to still be single.

At your age, it would be good perhaps to look outside the country;  Mexico, Mongolia, where the men are men and the women are nervous..........

I have not dated in the US since high school. There are many many glorious maidens in our country here in the US, however, and abroad. It is a matter of putting yourself within their way and do not worry about them calling 911 or having you arrested for smiling or asking them for a coffee. They are out there.

On the other hand, abroad is wonderful in that the maidens are courageous, but have been raised to believe that when men are good, they are very very good, rather than just 'Big Dogs That Can Talk'.

Just a thought.

I will put you on my prayer list to find heart, sir, and best wishes in the search and hunt for that heart.

The Lord knows what you need/want.....

Robert

Quote from: RAMS on Thu Oct 16, 2008 - 18:55:25

Quote from: MegaJedi on Wed Oct 08, 2008 - 17:54:30
Is horrible.  I tryed to date someone, and all thanks to GOD nothing happened.  But I am looking for a single CHRISTian female.  I am 35, Live in Ohio, and can call to talk whenever you want.  Sorry if I seem desperate, but like I said I am 35.  To old to still be single.

At your age, it would be good perhaps to look outside the country;  Mexico, Mongolia, where the men are men and the women are nervous..........

I have not dated in the US since high school. There are many many glorious maidens in our country here in the US, however, and abroad. It is a matter of putting yourself within their way and do not worry about them calling 911 or having you arrested for smiling or asking them for a coffee. They are out there.

On the other hand, abroad is wonderful in that the maidens are courageous, but have been raised to believe that when men are good, they are very very good, rather than just 'Big Dogs That Can Talk'.

Just a thought.

I will put you on my prayer list to find heart, sir, and best wishes in the search and hunt for that heart.

The Lord knows what you need/want.....

Robert

Put yourself in their way? Be sure to look at the hand! First, look for a ring of great power. "They are out there." What do you have to offer them? Charity and good works. Perform an act of kindness. It must be real and not show. If you are part of a church that is involved in community needs, take part in the benevolence. A good woman will appreciate that. If Habitat for Humanity is doing work in your area find a way to take part in the action. These are good places to start.