How can I break up with my suicidal girlfriend?

[grefy]

This is a serious problem. I've been in this relationship for a few years now. She is ruining my life. For the past year I've wanted to break up with her but I am absolutely convinced that she will kill herself if I do so. She takes meds and the more I push her away the harder she falls for me.

[TJW]

Try  "...get lost..." - and, if she threatens suicide,  "...make my day...".

You are not responsible for her actions, you cannot control them, and you will not be to blame if she takes her own life.

She is manipulating you through extortion.  Her threats are most likely what we southern boys describe as ".... a biodegradeable organic substance extruded from the bovine anal sphincter...".

She's GOD'S.  Not yours.  Give her back to Him.

[ex cathedra]

This is a serious problem. I've been in this relationship for a few years now. She is ruining my life. For the past year I've wanted to break up with her but I am absolutely convinced that she will kill herself if I do so. She takes meds and the more I push her away the harder she falls for me.

if she is on medication she has a doctor who knows the problems she has .. propably best to advise him him what going on with her and he
should be able to help you break away from her..

[JohnDB]

Its called emotional Blackmail & is a form of abuse.

You gotta tell her that you want to LIVE & not die. And that the main reason is her abuse of you & your relationship.