Why does god keeps rewarding awful behavior from women?

[estrella]

I used to know these two sisters in high school that were always provoking everybody. One of them tried to sleep with teachers, she opened her legs wearing a skirt under the chair with only her panties showing to provoke the male teachers. She slept around with many guys, bullied others and teased me for being a virgin. She also took food off everybody's plate and was just "too much" to bear.

Later on she had three abortions (by her own will, not natural abortions)killing her babies because it interfered with her sex life. I mean I understand one abortion because she wasn't ready to be a mother but three? common now!

Then she kept getting in trouble with men and finally moved out of our state to Kansas, there she met a wonderful man, married him and had three children without any gynecological problems and they children were all healthy, thank god living in a beautiful ranch. Now this is my thinking on the matter. I'm glad she was able to find some stability and that she didn't have the need to abort her children anymore, also finding a man that cares deeply for her. However my head spins on circles when one day I visited a gynecologist because I had been bleeding for months and discovered that I am:

1. Infertile

2. Have polycystic ovarian syndrome and will probably need surgery to remove the cysts.

3. I'm unable to ovulate

4. Sometimes have very painful periods

and other health problems. I am a 26 year old virgin who trusted god's word about purity. I never went around provoking men, teasing others or stealing people's food or killing babies. It seems to me that I have all the reproductive problems without any of the moral causes that christians love to blame on people when a disease comes around "it must have been something sinful you did" but a woman who did all these atrocities suddenly has the good life and none of the consequences, honestly and sincerely I want to ask why does god allows this to happen?

The only explanation I see from Christians is "well, God never promised you anything, not even for being good," which, IMO, makes a mockery out of my sacrifices, or it raises the question, why then bother being good?

My good deeds / being good, trusting God, etc, is NOT being rewarded and by reward I don't mean a husband but at least being disease free. I see no point in keeping up the charade. Most Christians (preachers) do not honestly wrestle with these confusing, painful issues, but just toss out small, quick, pat answers.

They also take the person in question side ( oh poor girl, she must have suffered a lot, shut up and stop judging her) as if telling the story like it really happen it's suddenly "judging" and I can't use my reasoning abilities to feel that I have been robbed out of life while someone did everything they wanted and still got rewarded.

Many other girls from my class had similar things happen and they have men that love her, babies everywhere and not a scratch on them. It seems fornication and killing does not matter that much apparently. Sometimes I think it's satan who is rewarding them and not exactly god. If satan can give riches and stuff to those that come to him would killing activate some kind of evil energy that rewards this behavior? Yes it sounds strange but I don't know what to think anymore.

Also I would like you to read this blog by a 40 year old virgin who did it everything according to the book and never got married and she's talking about real issues from christianity and sunch:
Christian Pundit


Opinions and thoughts? I would advise you to say your story and be honest instead of saying mean things..I have had enough of a beat down this year...

[DaveW]

Psalm 73.3 For I was envious of the arrogant
As I saw the prosperity of the wicked.
4 For there are no pains in their death,
And their body is fat.
5 They are not in trouble as other men,
Nor are they plagued like mankind.
6 Therefore pride is their necklace;
The garment of violence covers them.
7 Their eye bulges from fatness;
The imaginations of their heart run riot.
8 They mock and wickedly speak of oppression;
They speak from on high.
9 They have set their mouth against the heavens,
And their tongue parades through the earth.
10 Therefore his people return to this place,
And waters of abundance are drunk by them.
11 They say, "How does God know?
And is there knowledge with the Most High?"
12 Behold, these are the wicked;
And always at ease, they have increased in wealth.
13 Surely in vain I have kept my heart pure
And washed my hands in innocence;
14 For I have been stricken all day long
And chastened every morning.
15 If I had said, "I will speak thus,"
Behold, I would have betrayed the generation of Your children.
16 When I pondered to understand this,
It was troublesome in my sight
17 Until I came into the sanctuary of God;
Then I perceived their end.
18 Surely You set them in slippery places;
You cast them down to destruction.
19 How they are destroyed in a moment!
They are utterly swept away by sudden terrors!
20 Like a dream when one awakes,
O Lord, when aroused, You will despise their form.

[Helen]

My oldest daughter was diagnosed with the same problem.  That was in December of 2009.  She was married to a fine man in early February of 2010 and because of the diagnosis, they did not use birth control.  The twins were born the following October and the little one came along less than two years later.

She also had had a history of painful and irregular periods.  And abdominal pain at other times.

In the meantime, 'being good' is something you do for the Lord, not for yourself.  If you are calling yourself a Christian, then it is Christ's character that should shine through you, and that is even more apparent in difficult circumstances.  It's easy to be upbeat and lovely when everything is good, but much more important to show that Christ is in charge and you trust Him completely when things are difficult. 

It will be your difficulties that will help you understand others who have similar difficulties and be able to reach out to them with encouragement.  The happy times don't give you that ability.  It is only walking through the dark times that does.  Trust God and everything you do, do as unto the Lord.